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I have 2 big 🎺 announcements.
Scroll to the bottom for the summary.
1️⃣ The gallery show I've been working on opens Friday, October 1. It's called "pride4sex". To honor LGBTQ History Month, this sex-positive exhibition features my work and 9 more of Chicago's most provocative LGBTQ artists. (They called me provocative! 🥰 Fuck yeah.)
The goal is to promote a major piece of Pride that must not be lost: SEX!
All work will promote sex, body, and kink positivity. So naturally, my pride4sex theme will be fisting. 👊🏽
I've seen lots of shame and fear around the idea of fisting. Hear me out: this comes from straight culture oppression. We've adopted the idea that "tighter is better", "loose is bad", and so "fisting is disgusting". Mainstream patriarchy says sex should focus on the top's (or the masc straight man's) pleasure. Fuck that. 🙅♂️ In that paradigm the bottom is looked down on. They need to be "tight" for the top to enjoy sex. So what about the bottom? ⬇️
A tight 🕳️ hole isn't pleasurable. At least not to me. It's agony. 😡
Fisting inverts 🔄 that dynamic and tells the top: this isn't about you. ❌ It's about me. I could care less about the size of your dick. This is about my hole. This is about pleasing my guts.
I know that sounds crass. But the more time I spend with fisters and learning about my body, the more restrictive and oppressive my old beliefs around sex seem. (Side note: I didn't like bottoming until recently. I was ashamed to even want to try it. And I prided myself on having a top status. Late bloomer here. But eager to learn.)
The fisters I meet are gorgeous. 😂 Funny. Communicative. Their bodies are all different, but the passion is always intense. If you're curious about where to start or what fisting is, check out the Such FFun podcase created by two brilliant kinksters BigButtGeek and Jazzmatazz.
So join me in celebrating our bottoms. And pleasing bottoms. Through the art of fisting. ;)
Show opens Friday, October 1, 2021 [blink] Haus Gallery
3106 W Armitage, Chicago, IL, 60647
Call [blink] Haus Gallery for a private viewing in October 708 415 7226
2️⃣ The new fisting art series uses paper cut outs like these. Rose gold accent foil reflects gorgeous colors back towards the viewer.
I made 4 for the show, each celebrating our beautiful bottoms from mild to wild. You can get one in 2 ways.
Buy one of the show pieces from the gallery.
Email me and let me know which of my pieces you want in rose-gold foil.
Each piece is on black 16"x20" backing
Art is made entirely of cut paper and foil
All art comes with a gold foil certificate of authenticity (see below)
$297 + shipping
💌 Email me for artwork inquires at lonnie @ lonniedraws.com